Enneagram 8 - The Challenger
- Gavin Sorey
- Nov 20, 2023
- 2 min read
This is the eight in a series of nine features that provides insight into each of the Enneagram types. Each feature provides an overview of the type, including how each type responds to stress and evolves in growth. It also includes insight for leaders to customize their approach of support, insight for people working with them to be more intentional partners, and reminders for those that identify with the specific type.
What are the characteristics of an Enneagram 8?
type Eights are self-confident, strong, assertive, protective, resourceful, straight-talking and decisive
their basic desire is to protect themselves and to be in control of their own life and destiny
because of their desire for control, they can sometimes feel overbearing to those around them
their basic fear is being harmed or controlled by others
they can have problems with healthily managing their emotions and being vulnerable if they feel in the grips of control or not being heard
Eights at their best are fierce champions of others and channel their direct nature to support a common ‘good’ and inspire those around them
How do Enneagram 8s respond to stress and growth?
When Eights are stressed, they can take on the unhealthy qualities of a Five
this can make them secretive and fearful, focused on details as a means to attack
When Eights are healthy, they can take on the healthy qualities of a Two
this can help them look outside themselves and be caring/supportive of those around
For leaders to know when working with Enneagram 8s
be on your game; they have very high expectations of their leaders
be direct; they know when you’re holding back or trying to frame something to be ‘nice’
listen with intention; they will be frustrated when feeling unheard, or worse…dismissed
believe in them, they’ll see doubt as a challenge and will feel hurt by the lack of faith
they need autonomy but don’t leave them on their own, they still thirst for support too
For people to know when working with Enneagram 8s
follow through on commitments, they will feel let down if you do not and will not trust
be direct, they’ll know if you’re holding back or if you’re frustrated and not saying so
please hear them out, it is very important to them that their perspective is heard
it can be helpful to understand that they are very direct and can seem impersonal
they are actually sensitive so please don’t forget they have feelings too
For Enneagram 8s
use your energy wisely; not everything requires a challenge or battle
caring the loudest doesn’t mean that you care the most; be mindful of other perspectives
ask for permission before you bring your big energy, direct feedback, and no nonsense in
put intention into relationships; your work and what you achieve is only one part
the world is not against you if someone disagrees with you; you can be heard and wrong
For more on The Enneagram:
The 9 Ways of Working - Michael J. Goldberg
The 9 Types of Leadership - Beatrice Chestnut, PhD
The Sacred Enneagram - Christopher L. Heuertz
The Enneagram Institute - https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/type-descriptions
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